my wife died suddenly last year. of the many people that we spent time with on a regular basis, only 3 people have stayed in touch with me. about 65 people came to the service, and I got cards from people, but they didn't make any further contact. I keep thinking that I shouldn't have had to call everyone when my wife died, and they should have stepped up and been there for me. Am I right to have thought this? Should I have had to call everyone? Just because they were busy? Everyone's busy, but when your friend loses his wife, you step up and you are there if you care about them. 3 years before my wife was critically ill, and I had this one guy that was there every day for 5 weeks - he sat there with me in the ICU every single day in 2003, and then when she died, he didn't say a word to me for a year. He came by my house a year later and then told me he didn't know what to say. I'm just trippin on these people. I know I need to forget about it, but I'm still confused..thanks
2007-10-05
16:43:54
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