I am very confused about this whole divorce & custody issue. The man I am trying to see is divorced, has been that way for over 2 years, he is now in a custody battle between his ex-wife to get more access to his children - right now he can't take them out of the city, and only sees them with it is covenant for his ex-wife.
Now my confusion starts with wanting to have this relationship, but getting mixed signals from him ... one day we can be getting hot & heavy and the next day he's cold as ice towards me.... I don't know if he's been advised by his lawyer not to date someone right now, or if he has chosen that himself. I know this custody thing is taking allot out of him - emotionally, mentally, and financially, but what am I suppose to do?
Should I take a step back, and wait for things to calm down with the custody of his kids, and let him make the next move with this relationship? Or should I still be around, but in a less active nature?
2007-09-15
09:22:20
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