My wife and I have been married for 7 years, been together 10. Since we met I've been trying to get her to go on vacation with me. I told her wherever she wants to go- Paris, Italy, Hawaii- wherever- I would take her. She won't go because she's deathly afraid of flying.
Her best friend is a gay man and they've been friends since high school. I've met him (and his partner) numerous times- he's a nice enough guy. He even came to our wedding. My wife talks to him on the phone all the time and they go shopping together.
About 3 months ago he moved to Seattle (we live in Michigan). My wife told me yesterday that she booked a flight out to see him for a few days. I reminded her that she hates flying and won't go anywhere with me so why is she flying out to see him? She said she misses him- he's her best friend.
I am very upset and hurt right now over the fact that she'll fly for him but not for me. She didn't even consult with me before booking the flight. What should I do??
2007-09-15
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Troy
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Marriage & Divorce