Been married almost 3 yrs, split up 2 mos ago. Wife left - sez its cause she couldn't stand me getting on her case about being irresponsible w/ our finances (creating unnecessary debt, hiding bills -- with no job), our family business (decided to drop out cuz I couldn't hold her hand thru every "issue") , and rearing her teen daughter.
Has since moved in with her dad, 90 miles away, and he literally helps her find ways to justify her crappy behavior. She makes agreements with me - mostly now over custody/visitation of our 2-yr old son - then finds excuses to break them if things are not working in her favor.
**we've spent 2 yrs already in family counseling, at my expense.**
i do love her but can't deal with the negligence. before she left i closed the joint accounts, but have been sending money for my son weekly. when we were together, she wouldn't really discuss issues, but now she is quite explosive about them (and 90 miles away -- coward!)
where to go with this?
2007-09-13
04:01:04
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