All categories - 13 September 2007

What is the deal with jealousy and insecurity these days? I have recently dealt with friends of mine having double standards concerning FRIENDSHIPS with other people. I believe it is healthy to maintain and create friendships, regardless of gender, for the purposes of support, fun, etc in work, day to day, and personal life.

Now, how is it fair for somebody to say they have have those friendships, but their spouse can't? Keep in mind, these are in no way romantic. Also, if you are somehow worried that they will BECOME that way, what are you doing to help feed and maintain your own relationship to prevent any chance of that happening? Saying that your spouse cannot have any friends of a certain gender just sounds petty and jealous.

I guess what I'm asking is do you think that it's normal and okay to let jealousy and insecurity control your life? When you consider it, people *choose* to stray or to be together, or that's how it should be. You aren't required to accept an advance.

2007-09-13 04:14:04 · 9 answers · asked by mommylicious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/2007/football/ncaa/09/11/oklahoma.texas.fight.ap/index.html?cnn=yes

Beckett [a sooner fan] grabbed Thomas [the Longhorn fan] in the crotch, pulled him to the ground and wouldn't let go, even as bar patrons tried to break it up. When the two men were separated, Thomas looked down and realized the extent of his injuries.

"He could see both of his testicles hanging on the outside of his body," said Thomas' attorney, Carl Hughes. "He was wearing a pair of white shorts, which made it that much worse."...

Beckett, a 53-year-old **church deacon**, federal auditor and former Army combat veteran, has pleaded not guilty.

Might you categorize this guy a "Demon Deacon", even though he digs the Sooners? WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!?!?!?!?

2007-09-13 04:13:54 · 10 answers · asked by James-hova RTR: Suspended Champ 2 in Religion & Spirituality

It is shrinking on my part of the world..
Cheers!

2007-09-13 04:13:35 · 9 answers · asked by Manu 4 in Polls & Surveys

2007-09-13 04:13:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Words & Wordplay

I still love my wife I think. I mean she was nasty to me, abusive, is being difficult through this divorce. I guess i remember marrying her and loving her. It's hard to forget how in love i was with her. I guess i'm hoping that person will return not the nasty one that has caused me so much pain. However i do realize i still love the woman i married but there's nothing i can do until she wants to try since she's the one that left (even though she's claiming i kicked her out and is lying). i tried dating other people but her and i knew each other like the back of our hands. What should i do? some days i'm weak and want to contact her but with all the legal stuff going on and how nasty this woman has become, i don't think that's a good idea. my lawyer says given her impulsiveness leave her alone but i want to tell her i still love her but i haven't had any contact from her. I'm realizing while dating other women that i still love her. help?

2007-09-13 04:13:09 · 6 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-13 04:13:04 · 10 answers · asked by bigj1691 1 in Mythology & Folklore

For the past week I have been feeling sick. At first I thought it was the flu because I was always nauseous and my stomach hurt. Then two days ago my right side started to hurt. It hurts under my ribs. It never goes away and last night I woke up hot and it hurt so bad I was crying. This morning only my stomach hurts on the left but my right side is still sore. I am in college so I want to know if I should call my mom and ask her to take me to a doctor or if this doesn't sound too serious. I am starting to get worried about it. During the afternoon I try to eat but it only gets me sicker and seeing eating even on tv is worse. Should I go to a doctor?

2007-09-13 04:12:59 · 2 answers · asked by Jennifer S 2 in Pain & Pain Management

And why are their questions mostly private?(I'm just talking about some of them, not all).

2007-09-13 04:12:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Wrestling

If Kentucky beats Louisville this Saturday, would that be enough for the Cats to jump into the top 25?

2007-09-13 04:12:57 · 5 answers · asked by #1 Cats Fan 3 in Football (American)

My husband has 1 1/2 years left of a 6 year enlistment. The naval doctors recently found out he has hemolytic anemia. He has apparently had it all his life. It leaves him feeling very fatigued and at times very ill.He has tried iron pills,changing his diet nothing seems to help. The naval doctors haven't said much yet. He would like to get medically discharged from the Navy due to this condition. Is it possible? And how does he go about presenting his case?

2007-09-13 04:12:49 · 3 answers · asked by Lordes Skye 2 in Military

If an NCAA team has recruiting violations, they are not eligible for the tournament. What are your thoughts on doing something like that to the Pats for cheating?

2007-09-13 04:12:36 · 7 answers · asked by Bill24 1 in Football (American)

Specifically; if someone cheated on their wife / husband, and was forgiven, would there still be scriptural grounds for divorce if the couple at a LATER point wanted a divorce but neither had cheated at that particular time?

Also, a secondary question, since the only scriptural grounds for divorce is adultery, would a person be reproved in any way if they divorced someone that was very violent towards them?

2007-09-13 04:12:13 · 10 answers · asked by Paul S 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-13 04:12:12 · 2 answers · asked by Meg 3 in Polls & Surveys

cloudy. why? we have 7 gold fish in the tank and its always cloudy. and in my tank i have 12 tropical fish and its never gets cloudy.

and all they do is eat at the bottom of the tank like there hungry. why?

2007-09-13 04:12:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Fish

2007-09-13 04:11:56 · 5 answers · asked by Keith M 2 in PlayStation

someone told me it's causing sin to everyone who looks at it?

hmm?

2007-09-13 04:11:55 · 69 answers · asked by angelicsnowbabii 5 in Polls & Surveys

asians or iranians?

2007-09-13 04:11:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Immigration

2007-09-13 04:11:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Chemistry

2007-09-13 04:11:49 · 3 answers · asked by Rise, Lord Vader 3 in Movies

OMG,kids don't speak anymore. They text and IM now, and when they do, it's in some foreign code that makes a mockery of the King's English. ITDGI. Why don't kids talk anymore? IDK. I'll ask my BFF. BRB.

2007-09-13 04:11:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Society & Culture

if you recieve emails from wezhaoxie@yahoo.com or xie_wenzy4@yahoo.com this person is running a scam. She has a "client" mail you fraudulent Travelers Checks then wants YOU to cash them and send her the money. That way YOU are out the $$$$.
My question is do I report to local police station or some other agency??

2007-09-13 04:11:38 · 7 answers · asked by tlaven2 2 in Credit

Should it be santo claus cause he is a guy? Just wondering.. wink...

2007-09-13 04:11:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Mythology & Folklore

That have hot water???
I know that the blue springs near gainesville is natural but the water is cold (72 degrees). Are there any hot springs anywhere? My bf has never been to a springs and i would like to take him there. Any ideas? (hot or cold is fine, but i prefer that the water is hot).

2007-09-13 04:11:30 · 12 answers · asked by MedTq367 6 in Orlando

model: sanwa Yx-360TRD
made in japan

2007-09-13 04:11:22 · 7 answers · asked by 'Ya 1 in Engineering

I mean really

I would love to have one becuase when you go to a new school you always have a friend(your twin) or if you need help in some thing they can help you. and its cool becuase you al ways have some one to talk to. and you never get alonely!!

so have you ever wanted a twin??

2007-09-13 04:11:11 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

Are we allowed to put things up for sale in Answers?

2007-09-13 04:11:10 · 5 answers · asked by cami b 1 in Boats & Boating

I hate the Dallas Cowboys!!

Im an Eagles Fan. Explanation enough

2007-09-13 04:11:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2007-09-13 04:10:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Movies

are you?

2007-09-13 04:10:45 · 19 answers · asked by the girl ♥ 4 in Polls & Surveys

What does the 32 mean, and what does the D mean? And what's the smallest size? What's the largest, or one of the largest sizes? And how high or low does it to in the alphabet, and can you explain please?

2007-09-13 04:10:42 · 23 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Fashion & Accessories