My really good friend from childhood is a control freak. We knew each other while growing up and then lost touch for about 10 years. We started hanging out again for about an ongoing 1 year now. She is a very good person, my new family (my mom, step-dad, step-bro, and me) totally accepts her and says she is a part of the family. My step-dad says she's bit of a control freak but she's really nice...and for me to be a little patient with her. But friendship is about equality. Whenever we go out, she does all the talking and when I talk...you can tell she isn't listening. I'm kind of getting sick n tired of it really. She's 3 years older and in korean culture the older one takes care of the younger one...but we live in America for God sakes and because of that "culture" she only lives by...her controlling issues are even that much more a problem. We are planning to go to Europe together with a tour group (around our ages) and I feel that she won't allow my inner being to shine
2007-09-09
07:08:50
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