my friend has cancer, she is only 13 years old, i'm going to visit her what do i do to comfert her, she has lukhemia, a life threatening cancer plz help me tell me what to do what to give her!
2007-09-09 07:10:12 · 8 answers · asked by mehaksweetheart1 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
The best thing to give her is your respect. Act like there is nothing wrong with her., Oh, you ask her how she is doing today. But she wants to hear good news that a normal 13 year old would normally hear. You know:gossip, who's going with whom' the Hollywood stars, and music. Try and be upbeat, this is the best you can give her.
2007-09-09 07:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be Normal
Play some Table Games, Some Jokes
The Guy Don´t want to feel different or weird so don´t make a sad day for him.
Make a video with all his friends with a message and show it to him
2007-09-09 07:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by sph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend & let her talk to you & make sure she knows you are there for her but whatever you do "Don't pity her"!!! She needs positive people around her now, so encourage her & be there for her if she needs someone to talk to when she's going through her treatment. It won't be a "Bed of Roses", but just remember that "Cancer" isn't necessarily a "Death Sentence"!
Good Luck~
2007-09-09 11:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leukemia is treatable and sometimes curable. So encourage her to follow her treatments (chemotherapy) and do whatever you can to boost her spirit up. But hey... Don't treat her in a pity way!
2007-09-09 07:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by R.T. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so sad at such a young age.just help her emotionally.be there for her when she needs you.go to treatments with her when you can.hold her hand when shes sick.tell her you love her.when she is feeling good do things together.anuthing thats fun and makes her happy.
2007-09-09 07:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold her hand. Say you are sorry she has to go through all of this and that she is an important friend to her and you don't like to see her hurt. Let her talk anyway she wants. Hold her hand. If she or you should cry, that's okay.
2007-09-09 07:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by Simmi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just comfort her and tell her everything will be okay. try not talking about her cancer talk about events you did or whats happening. just try not to remind her.
2007-09-09 07:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by asdfghjkl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 14, and i have it too. Just be there, my friends totaly ignore me.
2007-09-09 11:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Austin =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋