I had actually filed last year. We went through full custody hearings, the works. Soon after, he called me to proclaim that he'd "beaten my *** in court" and got "his kids back," but now he wants his wife back too. I didn't really want him back, I'm sick of it all but we went into counseling anyway. After few months I see he doesn't really want to change, he doesn't want to work on it - he just wants to keep his "family". He constanty undermines me in front of kids, telling them they don't have to mind me, letting them do stuff I just told them they can't do, letting them sleep in bed with him (then there's no room for me in the bed and I have to sleep in my kids bed or on the couch), picks fights, provokes me in front of kids. I asked him if he wants me to leave - he just grins and says "do what you want - I just want MY kids with me." Occasionally after an episode he'll bring home flowers. But nothing has changed. I am in despair. I feel trapped and humiliated in this marriage.
2007-08-30
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jahzebel
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