Is it weird for a teen girl to be thinking about guys and marriage and even wanting to be pregnant? If you are a teen girl btw and you get pregnant by accident how do you tell the guy without scaring him off (he's just as young as you are)
2007-08-30 18:01:28 · 11 answers · asked by meow. 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Its somewhat normal as your body is going through some hormonal changes. However this is a feeling that you hope will go away and come back when youre an adult and able to deal with the responsibilities of having a child. If youre still depending on mommy, chances are youre not ready to be a mom yourself.
2007-08-30 18:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird, it's normal. But if you really want the best for your future kids, you hold off on having them until you are older and have an education. Because the best predictor of a kid's success in life is if the mom is at leas 21 and has some education and isn't poor. When you become a teen mom, your kids are worse off.
Oh, and let's face it, with your thoughts, if you get pregnant, it won't be 'by accident' it's because you want to. And a lot of guys will run off and not help you, and then you never get to go to parties or buy nice clothes because all your time and money is spent on the kid. So it's no picnic, it's really, really hard.
2007-08-31 01:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think its completely normal for a young girl to want those things. But those things come in time. Don't rush yourself. Please! I know what you mean . I had a baby at a very young age and now my friends are still going out and doing their own thing and a part of me misses all that. Don't get me wrong I love my daughter with all of my heart but I think some parts of my life were cut short b/c i was in such a rush to have a baby. But of course at the time I didn't feel that way.
Sweetie, please don't rush into in and don't "accidently" get pregnant. Because he'll resent you for it. He's too young to be a Dad and if you do it without him knowing you are robbing him of his ability to be a kid. but of course thats both of your faults for making the decision.. My BEST advice to you is to wait until your married. I can't say it enough. I know.. I KNOW that it may not seem like something that you want to do now. But your still a kid so have your dreams and have fun. And when the time is right you'll meet a guy that wants a baby as much as you do. I hope you make the right decision b/c a baby should NOT be brought into that kind of situation. Good Luck!
2007-08-31 01:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Christen T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first off I suppose that it is not uncommon in America in this day and time for teenage girls to think about marriage, babies, and guys. I know that when I was younger I thought about how my future would be and had it all mapped out. I just would like to tell you that being a young mother myself. It is not an easy road to take and I hope that you greatly weigh your odds. Life is too short and you should enjoy all that you can while you are young and your responsibilties are minimal.... To tell a guy that you are pregnant can be rough, but I would be more worried about your parents. I hate to say it, but there is not a gentle way to break pregnancy to a teenage boy. That is the last thing they want, even if they say they will be there, blah, blah, blah....99% of teenage pregnancies lead to the mother being the sole provider. Just be smart in your decisions in life... :)
2007-08-31 01:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by *`*`Brittany`*`* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal at 14 i wanted a baby but i was just way too young and i wanted to be in a stable relationship and be able to support my baby.
Some women just have materal instincts, BUT i wouldnt go out and get pregnant until you have a guy that you love and he loves you back and you have been together for a couple of years.
I am now 19 going on 20 and i am nearly 4 months pregnant. I am glad i waited because now i can give my baby the best of everything and i have a wonderful partner who is here for me and our baby. We have been together for 3 years, we are engaged to be married, we live together and we both have good jobs that pay well. i am glad i didnt have a baby when i was young because honestly i wouldnt have been able to support it and i was still a child my self.
Wait till you are older it is the best thing you can do for yourself and your baby!
2007-08-31 01:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heres a line, YOUR GOING TO BE A DAD so these no more free running around, truthly if your young teen you should think you have so much to do yet, I feel preg at 18 and i wish well dont wish I couldnt be mroe happier with my daughter but i wanted to do so much and now I still can but have to think of someone elses life too!
2007-08-31 01:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At that age their biological clock should just be set on the snooze button. In this day in age teenagers are having sex at such a young age. If their comfortable enough to be intimate together they really should'nt have trouble communicating that she is pregnant. Let's face it when you have sex you play russian roulette on getting pregnant weither your on birth control or not. Either way she needs to be completely honest with him.
2007-08-31 01:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i was 17 when i was pregnant with my first my hubby he was 19 and its gonna be werid but i told him thru a text message and he said i cant believe we are gonna have a baby he was okay then we talked and he was happy about it ..now we are expecting our secound one and really happy
but then agian not everyone reacts the same ...as long as they sit them down and tell them the truth i think i would be just fine
2007-08-31 01:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by AMIEE B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be normal but do yourself a favour and live your life first. once there is a baby around you cant even go to the loo by yourself!!! Im a mum of two and while i love my babies i wish i had of travelled and stuff first.
2007-08-31 01:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is the right guy he wont be scared of. thats how you know he loves you
2007-08-31 01:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by christian3411 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋