I've been with my partner for 6 years and we have two children. We moved very fast in the early days, with me falling pregnant and us moving in together very quickly. Our relationship hasn't been easy, he has left me several times and been sneaky with other girls (though not actually cheated on me), and he's often said he doesn't love me and is only with me for our children etc. Despite all of this, we have had great times and I genuinely do love him and want our relationship to work, but I feel under-valued and unloved in our relationship, and my self esteem is at an all time low, because I truly believe he is only with me for the children, and if I'd have never fallen pregnant, he'd have been gone a long time ago.
Anyway, I've asked for a trial separation, because I feel I need time out to assess whether I really want to be with someone who makes me feel so unwanted and doubtful. He agreed without debate, which makes me feel my doubts are founded.
What is likely to happen?
2007-08-21
07:17:30
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