Last night I went out with my boyfriend, his best friend, and two of my friends. We had a few drinks, but weren't drunk - just hanging out and talking.
What got me, was that he seemed to be kind of ignoring me - and paying more attention to everyone else. He probably thought he was being polite to them, but I just felt kind of ignored. Not to an extreme degree, but just kind of - there.
He went back to his place and I went back to mine (his best friend's car was at his house and the friend needed it) - we got on the phone after a bit, and I was feeling just 'expressive' enough to mention that that had bothered me. He said that he hadn't noticed that, etc. etc., and would talk to me today about it - I guess the friend was still there. I just feel really weird about the situation. It felt like I was kind of an 'extra' in the outing, and it bothered me - he didn't even notice. Am I out of line here? What should I say when I talk to him?
2007-08-17
02:54:21
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HooliganGrrl
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Marriage & Divorce