im sick and tired of her she always buys my sisters things and only two for me.when i was in eigth grade she used to take me shopping all the time and buy me a new designer bag and all new clothes.now shes like you cant buy alot when she buys my little sisters new shoes,new jeans,new shirts,headbands,jewlery etc. im so sick and tired of her saying that IM the spoiled brat.what can i make her do to like me and buy me things im going back to school soon!
2007-08-17 02:50:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
mayb u should tell her how u feel
2007-08-17 05:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Queen of Hearts♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, that does sound spoiled. You've probably reached an age where your not growing as quickly as you used to so its not necessary to constantly buy you new clothes and things. Whereas a younger sister has probably outgrown a ton of stuff. You have to look at it financially from your parents point of view. Money doesn't grow on trees. She has to look at how much money is available to buy the stuff that is needed instead of just "WANTED". you said she bought you two things. Be grateful for what you did get.
You should also love her no matter if she buys anything for you or not. How would you feel if something happened to her and you never got to see her again. Tell her everyday that you love and respect her.
2007-08-17 03:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by JLM 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Take a moment to analyze things from your mother's point of view...is she really treating you poorly? Did she buy your sister more things because she actually *needed* them, or just to cheese you off? I think if you look at it fairly you'll find that your mother is doing the best she can to make sure you girls both have the things you *need* so maybe buying things just because you *want* them isn't possible.
You're old enough though...get an afterschool job or something and buy some of your own things. I think you'd appreciate them more if you earned them yourself.
2007-08-17 06:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by missbeans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you opt for? Her to love you or purely "purchase you issues?". in case you opt for your mothers love, understand she is merely doing now on your little sister what she did for you. The extra you get on your mom approximately this, the fewer probably she is to do something for you, with the aid of fact of your "habit" not that she would not' like or love you. If she observed as you a spoiled brat, i'm specific you acted like one and that i could do much less for you too. end beating your mom up verbally, do you realize how fortunate are are to have a "clothier handbag" in the 8th grade?? i understand you do not. in case you opt for garments for college, ask her in case you 2 can pass to Ross and look at some stuff for you, you may get call type clothier stuff there for a million/3 the fees of branch keep expenses. The extra you say, yell, kick and scream .... the fewer you will get provided that kind of habit is a spoiled brat. Sorry I call it like I see it. And that's totally high priced to boost 2 young ones besides so be glad about something and each thing you do have and end hating your mom be fortunate you have one and you at the instant are not in a foster abode.
2016-10-15 22:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Morning Dalice always nice to see your answers:)
Do you really need your mother to buy you things? Whats wrong with the stuff you had last year, and what have you been wearing during the summer? I never buy my son clothing only shoes and i get all his clothes as hand me downs to save me money. Try helping your mother out around the house if you want more expensive items
2007-08-17 03:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Wishmaster 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are a spoiled brat. Do you really need a new designer bag? Most adults can't afford those for themselves!
Dalice is right, though. This should be in the Family section.
2007-08-17 04:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Word of advice, GROW UP! Your Mom is only doing for your little sister what she had once done for you, Let your little sister have the same quality time with your mom which you have already had! And your Mom is right about calling you a spoiled brat, who do you think you are adding details like 'she used to buy me a new DESIGNER bag' Isn't one designer bag enough, its not like they are necessities? Jees, get over yourself!
2007-08-17 03:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
hate to say it if you don't want her to see you as a spoiled brat STOP ACTING LIKE ONE! Stop being so selfish and jealous of your sister, you had that now she has it and trust me when she's your age she wont get it either. get a job and buy your own stuff or do extra chores around the house for money. she does like you, she loves you but you have to start growing up and realizing good things in life aren't handed to you on a plate any more, you have to work for them.
2007-08-17 03:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself, she use to buy you stuff all the time. Now you have a little sister that your Mom has to buy for as well.. Sounds to me you're jealous of your little sister and want everything for yourself. So she only buys you 2 things, big deal. At least she bought you something, right? Stop acting like a spoiled brat and be grateful for what she does get for you.
2007-08-17 03:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋
ooh i smell jealousy in you jk well how about this you ask her if she can take you to a store so you can get stuff for back to school and if she says sure then say if after going to the store if she can take you shopping for some looks for school .
2007-08-17 05:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
about a year ago my dad asked me to turn off some lights, and i told him no. and he is like ur wasting money and i said i dont have to pay it so no. from then out i have to earn my own money.
so basiclly im saying maybe ur mom thinks you to for granted what you did get. ask for an allounce then just buy ur own stuff. that will show alot of maturiy in u and if ur mom isnt proud of that then well idk
2007-08-17 03:13:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋