Growing up I was told that black women don't know how to be strong and submit to their husbands. So I made it my business to be smart, beautiful, successful and a good wife and mother. Now my hubby thinks I am too giving to him and our boys. WTF? I stay home with the kids but I also have a full-time job (at night), I cook, clean, helped him through school, helped start and run his business and give it to him anyway he likes. I also work out and make sure I am always sexy even though I have 3 children. So what is the problem? Men (especially black men) say they can't find a good woman but when they have one why do they still complain? My hubby said he is unhappy but couldn't find 1 thing I was doing or not doing that contributed to it. What do I do? How do I stop being to "giving" without not being me? He even admitted that I do everything he ever wanted from a wife and mother. Is it just a fact that men are never satisfied? I don't believe in divorce but is that where I am headed?
2007-08-10
08:52:42
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PharmNerd
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Marriage & Divorce