the reason y we broke up is because he liked another girl, but then he told me he still likes me. I asked him who does he love more? and he said that he loves us both. Another thing was the other girl that he liked, text messaged me saying that she was the cousin of my ex. i asked my cousin, he said no and they were already going out.
We are from each other, and I will be seeing him again this December.... what do i do.
2007-08-10 08:53:40 · 29 answers · asked by >>>>>idk<<& 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is keeping you down because it boosts his ego, it also acts as a warning to his current gf: 'I might treat you like crap but be nice to me as I have someone waiting to take your place'
He sounds like a real slime who enjoys playing with your emotions and torturing you for the feelings you still have. He has obviously moved on and cares nothing for you.
You certainly will find a real man who will worship you full time!
Sever communication with this loser as he is making you unhappy with every contact!!!
If I were your friend, brother or lover, I would consider it my duty to pay him a visit and tickle him clumsily with my fists and boots. I always get angry when I hear of situations like this....grrrrr....
Good luck to you!
2007-08-10 09:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by tentacles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but I think your boyfriend is a loser. He's keeping you close in case the other girl doesn't work out. That is not love. That is manipulation. He'll say just enough nice things to you and talk to you just enough to keep you uncertain so that you don't let him go and move on. That way if things don't work out, he can come back to you. But guess what happens next? As soon as another girl comes along that he likes, you'll be put on the shelf again. Don't be that girl. Being that girl stinks. It hurts you as a person, and prevents you from making yourself available to others who will be more interested and will treat you right. The smart thing to do is to let this guy go, permanently. Stop talking to him. Stop texting him. Stop reading his emails. Cut him off, and move on. It will hurt for a little while, but not only will you get completely over it, but you will be a better person for it and will find a guy that is a million times better. In the meantime, avoid him, keep yourself busy, hang out with your friends, have some fun, get some exercise, and do whatever you have to do to keep your mind off of it. In time, you'll be ready to move on and will be much better off in every way. I guarantee it. Good luck!
2007-08-10 09:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, and fast. He is only keeping u on the sidelines in case it doesn't work out with the other girl, he doesn't want to burn any bridges with u. You don't want a guy like that, he can't be trusted not to move on to someone else again when he feels something better is going to be offered. You can't truly love two people, so he hasn't evened learned what love is. You deserve better, go and find it.
2007-08-10 09:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEASEN GIRL!
that is just 2 ***** easy,
the guy is a jerk, bcuz he doesnt have the brains to see that you are soooo much worth than the other girl, is that simple cuz if u gout out with him or hook up with him u are going to be part of his litle game about playing with you two
about the cousin ****, just get along with her and 4get about the other guy cuuz there siii sooo many better fish in the sea
2007-08-10 09:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you think he really likes just you? Or is he feeding you a line? When he says he loves you both...what he means is that he doesn't want to have to make a choice to be with just one girl...at least not with you. You need to figure out whether he is worth the risk of getting hurt again.
2007-08-10 08:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation once...I think it's IMPOSSIBLE to be in love with two people at once, because it's not true love. I don't deny that he may have feelings for you both. But I think he's just trying to have his cake and eat it too. If you just sit around waiting for him to make up his horny mind, you may miss the opportunity to meet someone else who is special.
2007-08-10 09:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by Spicy!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just forget about this guy.
he does not know what he wants.
Do you want him to like you/lust or do you want him to love and appreciate you.
If you want to play games stay with him.
If not forget about him. He is not worth it.Obviously he does not like you enough to stay with you and only you.
If you do get back with him, he is probably going to cheat on you.
Truth can be harsh.
But as women, we can not be fools and let men stomp on us.
You desearve better.
It sounds like you are very young, and will meet someone more mature later on.And that guy will only have eyes for you.
Enjoy being young!
2007-08-10 09:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely Lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move on and avoid getting wrapped up in the games. people try to start drama by texting and lieing to make themselves feel better by seeing your pain. its hard to be the bigger person, especially if you still have feelings, but i think that with some space and avoidance of drama you will feel a lot better. a friend of mine says, if you love someone set them free, if they dont return, they were never yours to begin with. and in the mean time, he will have a chance to miss you, and maybe even see how immature his new girlfriend is.
2007-08-10 09:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by Aimee P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back in that relationship. It is called a breakup because it is broken. Try to get over if even though it seems hard because you will find the right person someday
2007-08-10 09:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by sunny17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi babe all ive gotta say is that follow your heart dont listen to what people say because you might regret your action do what you heart tells you i followed mine and went bac tomy ex and now were happy 2gether so follow urs u mite just be happy.Gud luck huni
2007-08-10 09:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋