At 14 she messed up, we had to be harsh. She apologized, promised to change, asked us to trust her but we said she'd have to prove. She got extremely resentful and said. For a year she asked for our trust, but we were tough, though she had changed her behavior. We know she suffered a lot, our trust was really important to her. She got depressed, said she was devastated cause she had made a mistake but everybody does, but had fixed it, deserved our trust and denied. Actually, she turned out to be a great girl, but became cold, distant. She found people like teachers who were very important to her and trusted her. In her opinion, we weren't parents, we only punished and broke her spirit but didn't help her overcome her troubles, didn't show love. She became a wonderful girl but we lost her love. Today we aren't important to her at all, we aren't part of her life. Even out trust, which now she has completely, today means nothing to her. She's not resentful, just indifferent.
2007-08-03
07:56:25
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