for those of you in successful long-distance relationships, what is your secret?

Question

i know its all about communication, trust and loyalty and all that jazz...but for those of you who are in long distance relationships what have you done in order to not get depressed from not seeing each other as much? my boyfriend and i are going to be close to 3 hours apart both going to universities. He's the love of my life and I dont want the distance to rip us apart because when we're together it's complete bliss. i'll love you forever if you can give me REAL advice on this one! thanks!!

Answer 1

>Pics
>IMing
>Phone calls
>Webcams

Answer 2

Communication was our secret. We were 2.5 hours apart while dating for over 3 years. We spoke daily and told each other of our days. There were times when not a lot was said but even being in silence and just having the other partner on the other end of the wire at times was nice. We would play card games with each other on the internet. E-mails and surprised test messages telling each other how much we loved and missed each other also occurred. We were adults so would travel to see each other each weekend, I would either go to her home or her to mine for the weekend. Time that we got to spend together was valued and appreciated. Reality is that while in LDR's there are many temptations but being able to remain faithful is pretty easy as long as both admire, respect and love each other. I married the woman who I had a LDR with just two months ago and we continue to live apart at present. We both have pretty good jobs at present and so have to remain there as we love our employment and for financial reasons also. But we continue to keep in touch daily and see each other on weekends. There were some surprise visits also during our courtship and these were very much appreciated and actually needed at times. Sounds like you have a pretty good grasp on being involved in a LDR and the pitfalls associated with them. But the old adage is very true "absence makes the heart grow fonder" and you too will appreciate each and every moment that you get to spend together. Best of luck to you both in managing this LDR and in your post education studies also.

Answer 3

My husband and I met on the net. He lived in Australia. Talk about long distance! We just talked a lot on line, did cam chats, phone calls and wrote snail mail to each other all the time. Try and stay positive. Don't let people put negative thoughts in your head. Like if you cannot reach him for a bit don't automatically assume he is cheating or avoiding you. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Well, me and my man talk on the phone as often as possible. We also make plans to see each other on the weekends if possible. If not we schedule days off so we can see each other. When we are together we cherish every minute since we are apart. Hope this helps

Answer 5

Well, my boyfriend is right now in Texas (i'm in Ohio).and soon to be Iraq. He's in the army and when we see each other we make it worth the time we're together.And it used to be bad but now, its not. Yes i'm always thinking about him, but his time will be over in a few years then we can really pick up where we left off.

If he's the love of your life, you will wait.

Answer 6

True Love.

Answer 7

from my experience i would advice u to be really patient,faithful,trust in him,and if u really love each other,there should be comprehension and dont ever be doubtful or jealous over everything

Answer 8

Sorry, no advice, only proverbs:
Out of sight, out of mind!
Long absent, soon forgotten!

Answer 9

frequent visits until you decide to move in together....communication..email, text or phone

Answer 10

We cheat.










Lol just kidding.