sometimes i just want to run away. my dad especially gets on my nerves all the time...and by that i mean making me cry (im really sensitive). He yells at me for stupid little things, and sometimes i just wish he wasnt my dad. and he embarrasses me ALL the time, and it's more than a little embarrasment, or so i think. we're always mad at each other, but he always wins, cuz hes "the boss" and he's "always right".can you help?
2007-08-03 07:55:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to him. Tell him how you feel and how he hurts you. Also, ask him why he treats you like that, if you do something he doesn't like or doesn't approve of.
I don't think fathers should be the boss. They are supposed to raise and correct their children, but no need to be harsh or bossy. I think tyhe best thing to do is talk to him. Do this calmly, no fusses, like an adult. This will surprise him and may make him change his attitudes towards you.
2007-08-03 08:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Steiner 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your dad wants control and he wants you to be his perfect little daughter, but you have to tell him that your NOT perfect, and you never will be, and nothing he can do will change that. But I am always thankful that i'm me and not somebody else... think about how hard it is for the little kids in Africa with no shoes, no decent clothes, and no $$$. At least you have a house with people who love you.
2007-08-03 15:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋