I'm a woman and I have to BE ATTRACTED to someone to get busy with him. This is why I rarely have sex. That, and I'm not a whore. But why do guys not even have to be ATTRACTED to a girl to do it with them? i read in an article once that guys will have sex with their enemies if given the chance.
If a guy is having sex with you, he may not even necessarily be attracted to you!? This is bonkers to me, but the older I get, the more interactions I have w/ guys at work, school, socially etc., I see a running theme of "It doesn't matter who I do it with, as long as I do it."
I'm 21. Now that I'm older, I dont 'get all giddy anymore when a guy flirts with me b/c in my head, I understand that they probably don't even like me, which makes no sense that they're flirting, but so is life.
so...back to my question-why do guys not even have to like someone in the slightest to have sex with them?
2007-08-02
16:58:39
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