I am a Christian, and I would like to find a nice Christian girl to settle down with.
I asked a question about an appropriate way to find out if a girl saves herself for marriage.
I recieved several answers that say i am judgemental. I do not feel this is accurate. I can be friends with everybody, but I see potential marriage candidates would have to have the same values as mine ( i am waiting for marriage).
People say God doesn't judge, so I have no reason to. Wouldn't i be more dishonest pretending it didn't affect my feelings? I don't want to hurt anybody. But i mean, we marry people we are totally at peace with, right?
To me the subject is a big red flag. I don't think i am being judgemental, so much as it being a fact that i know this person doesn't share my values.
What do you think?
2007-07-29
15:33:07
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Marriage & Divorce