Few mths ago, I realisd my husband had a new female friend he was getting close 2, atho he nvr metiond her 2 me. I startd chking his cell msgs n concluded that altho thr was no actual relnship, the girl was definitely super-friendly, beyond what I find acceptable. I hired a PI, found tt he was definitely lying 2 me abt spending time with colleagues when he was actually with her. When confronted, he insistd he wasnt doing anything wrong, even denied she existd until i named specific time and place he had been with her. then he said she's some business contact. said he lied 2 me becos i have a habit of freaking out, which 2b fair, is true. we talkd n set boundaries 4 his interaction with her. lately he's been deleting msgs, which i noe cos certain things in his records dont seem complete. dont think he's cheating, but the lies r still burning at me.cant stop thinking abt wat he did, feel i cant trust him one bit, keep sniping at him and am going mad frm the stress.
2007-07-27
18:29:12
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