I am getting married April 2008 and my fiance & I were disscussing kids. He says he won't be able to afford a home, bills, food, and kids on his ($120,000) salary b/c he also pays $1000 in school loans. We have no family near us and I really do not want my kis growing up at a daycare. I must admit I grew up with my mother staying at home. My sister also worked for a nicer daycare & said she would never put her kids in daycare. I told him I would go back to work once they are both in school but that I wanted to work at the school for I could have the same time off as the kids. I am willing to have a part time job 2 or 3 days a week while my kids are small but my air traffic controller husband would have to be home. Yes, air traffic controllers have all sort of weird hours.
His friend who works with him even thinks I should stay at home b/c my salary right now would not cover the cost of daycare, gas, and clothing (for me at work). How do I convince him or what should I do?
2007-07-26
03:10:03
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Amy J
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