Before she was my wife, she was my girlfriend (obviously), and we had sex 5 or 6 times a week for the first year. As we dated, year after year for 4 years, that slowed down to once a week. I figured that was normal (even though I wished it was more), but now that we've been married 2.5 years, it went to once every two weeks, to once a month, to now it's July and we've had sex twice in 7 months! She still seems loving and caring, and nothing else seems to be wrong except she just never wants to sleep with me at all anymore. She says it's normal but I think it's really really not. We're both in our early 30's and I am seriously worried about our future. I love her like crazy but I don't know if I can continue... without. We have no children yet and I don't even want any with someone I am so nervous about a furture with. I feel so shallow because otherwise she is everything I could ever want. We had such a great sex life before marriage and now we have literally none. Any ideas?
2007-07-19
13:37:43
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Simian
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