My husband decided to change jobs so he will be able to be home during the week. So we're looking to buy a house closer to place of new business, and I am quitting my job (other quest. posted). He just called and said present employer offered him a raise and possible bonuses; (he is in construction, a superintendent). New job will give him a vehicle to drive to and from work and same wage with raise and bonuses regularly. He wants to stay with present job, but wants me to decide. I am very hurt. I thought the whole thing was so we could finally be together more instead of just weekends! I'm thinking of just telling him it's his choice, see what he does, and then decide how I am going to handle it; separation, divorce...I don't know. Am so confused. Any advice? And yes, I've discussed this all with him before, so he does know how I feel. I won't make the decision, because if I say you better take the new job or else, and it doesn't work out, he will blame me.
2007-07-16
13:01:02
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dawnUSA
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Marriage & Divorce