I am 25 and I'm beginning to realize that my mother is a highly-irrational control freak.
After living on my own for a year, my fiancé & I moved to my parents' house to get out of a bad roommate situation. That was three months ago and we're trying like hell to get out. Everytime I tell her about a potential place, she finds a way to shoot it down. She blew off the idea of co-signing for us to get a place (because we have no credit) because she doesn't care if we ever leave or not.
I mentioned today that I would like to take over medical insurance payments someday, and that coupled with the fact that I wouldn't like living on a piece of land with my whole family around (just a pipedream anyhow) apparently = I want NOTHING to do with my family at ALL. She says that "love doesn't last", and that my fiancé & I can't live on our own without anyone else.
The most hurtful thing about her is that she is EXTREMELY against us ever having a family -- ever.
2007-07-12
06:56:49
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