Been living together for 4 yrs. Since about our 2nd year, we've been talking about getting married. Not "if" but "when" we get married. Although we both have decent jobs, he's reluctant to spend his savings on a ring when there are more practical things to spend money on (like a house, but I won't buy until we are married or at least engaged).
So my mom gave us her engagement ring and wedding band from my dad (they're divorced) to help us save money (re-setting her diamonds will save a lot of $$) That was 2 or 3 yrs ago. We've been to several jewelry stores. He knows what I'd like. We went to Florida when I turned 30 last year. I thought the proposal was going to come. Nothing. Last summer he asked when I'd like to get married. I said "next fall" (meaning fall, 2007). Still nothing. Every vacation we take, every holiday, I hope it comes, but no. He doesn't want me to propose. He doesn't want to set a date either. I'm getting resentful. I love him but I want to plan my life already!
2007-07-06
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