I've read both sides, I've heard his side, but I just can't accept it. He just started a week ago, he wants to do it again, and he told me he was planning on doing it more and more often. I got into this huge argument with him, he kept telling me that it wasn't that detrimental to his health and then turned the table and asked if he was worth my worries. I'm just scared for him, and I have personal issues with smoking, he knows that too. I pretty much gave him a choice of weed or me. Is it wrong of me,am I really that irrational?But this isn't the first time I've told him something bothers me and he didn't stop. I really REALLY don't want to lose him, but I don't know if I can take it if I know he's doing it, and part of me now thinks that if he can do it, knowing I'm worried, then I don't know if I can be with him at all. He told me the other night he would rather talk to me and be with me than smoke, that this wasn't a big part of his life, but he took it back the day after.Help
2007-06-22
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