While this happened quite a while ago, it still chaps my hide. My sister's husband's niece, to whom I have never been close, was getting married. She did not send an invitation to me, but simply tacked my name onto my older sister's family invitation. My sister, without asking me, RSVP'd that I would also attend. I had no wish to do so, nor could I afford a gift. I don't even like this bride as she has never been remotely friendly to me. I did not attend this wedding. My sister tells me that each meal that had been ordered was nearly $30 and I should at least send them a check to cover the food they had ordered for me. I told her that she should if she felt it was necessary, as I had neither been properly invited, nor was I asked as to what my RSVP should have been. Had I been, it would have been no from the start. Who's right?
2007-06-21
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