Many months ago, my girlfriend and I (both in our 30s) parted because I was reluctant to go the next step. Two months into her relationship with someone else, I fought to get her back. She lost sleep and couldn't decide. After many weeks, she came back to me, saying she ended with the new guy because he was much younger and not ready to settle down (I now am). She said my pleading had nothing to do with that break up. We love each other, but now I fear she came back only because she couldn't have the new guy. I keep wondering whether she delayed because she liked him more, or if the sex was better, etc. (If so, I know she wouldn't tell me that). My friends think I should just be happy she's back, and that says it all. How do I get over the jealousy? Girls: Should I assume I compare favorably with the new guy if she is willing to go back to me? I guess I'd hate to be her sentimental or practical choice and him her sexual/romantic choice.
2007-06-21
11:31:59
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