Not the typical "he left me, I still love him - can I get him back" question...
We've been together for a year and a half, and I'm nearing 30, and wanted to get married... one night last week I started feeling anxious and told him that if he wasn't ready to marry me I was going to break up with him. It was a fleeting feeling and immediately after I said it I felt bad (because we'd already agreed to talk about marriage once we'd been together for 2 years) He said he wasn't ready yet, so I went to a hotel the next day, saying I couldn't wait.
I didn't really want to leave him, and I called him that within hours of leaving. I asked to come home and apologized for giving him an ultimatum. He took me back, but has since been distant, unsure of his feelings and said he doesn't know if it will work out. He wants to spend a week apart to get some space. I'm ok with that, but I want to show him I still love him and that he can trust me again. How can I regain his confidence?
2007-06-14
09:09:51
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