My marriage is on the rocks and in a he said/she said whirlwind. He claims that all of his "problems" is that i am not a good enough housekeeper and that I act like I don't like him. On my side of it I say he acts like a teenager; wants to control the $$, believes compromise is me controlling him, believes that him working is his part (doesn't understand that marriage takes work too). He works for himself & I am a stay at home Mom and I do all of his clerical/advertising. He is 33 and I am 36 & the kids are mine from a previous. Anything I say, he says I am nagging. I told him when we met that I was not a great housekeeper, but the most devoted, honest, and truest woman he would ever meet.
Guys, especially, can you help me understand him and his thinking so that I can work with it?
2007-06-10
05:25:32
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tonyer71
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Marriage & Divorce