My partner and I are definitely expanding our family within the next few months. This we are very excited about!
We are caught between two possibilities. One is using a cryogenic lab close to us, using an ICI donor (which is basically home insemination). It is way more affordable than we ever thought possible, but it could get costly if we don't get it right the first time. Basically we are looking at $350 per vial including the shipping, or we could drive 3 hours and pick it up.
The other possibility is I have a very good straight friend of mine who has agreed to be a donor (his wife is fine with it as well). He lives in Cali, we live in Vermont, so we told him we would pay his airfare, and he would stay at the house of course.
Basically, we don't which to choose. Both has pluses and minuses, my partner does not like the idea of me having sex with him, which would be more practical of course. Also one way we know the father, the other we don't. Suggestions?
2007-06-01
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