My husband and I separated a year ago, our divorce became final in Feb, after a 15 year marraige. I left because I wasn't happy. I had lost respect for him. My husband wasn't very ambitious. It seemed like whatever success we had was because I got us there. I worked overtime to get us extra money for family vacations, to get us into a house. I took care of my son and his kids (the youngest now 20), he did nothing to help. I felt like I was doing the work of two and if I could succeed for both of us, I could surely do it on my own!
Well, he's changed. He has started his own business. He goes to work everyday. He is taking care of his bills, the house he rents, the pets he has of ours. He doesn't just sit on the couch!
And I miss my old life. I miss my pets. I miss the routine. I haven't spent a lot of time with him, but we talk quite a bit and get along better than we ever have.
Do you think it could work?
2007-05-22
05:52:40
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