I don't know what happened but getting pregnant turned tragic for our relationship. We concieved out of love and here we are six months later with NO LOVE for each other. Its turned very nasty. I think we fell for that stupid idea that I baby would fix things. We've tried and tried to try fix things, we even tried counseling. But ultimately there are issues that can't be resolved that somehow were excerbated by the pregnancy. The father and I cannot even have a civil, respectful conversation anymore. I feel very guilty about bringing a child into the world in these circumstances. I don't think its fair for our son to come into the world to 2 parents who hate each other. But the thing is, I'm going away to grad school so either we work it out, or I go it alone. Which is better for our baby's wellbeing? No father or 2 parents who hate each other? By no father I mean, we'll be far away, too far away for weekend visits. I just want to do whats best for our baby.
2007-05-07
17:42:32
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