I was running my own business, building our dream home and I gave her all the time she needed to start her own business even helped her with marketing, business planning, etc. Not only this, for the previous 3 years I was providing her a new car, phone, computer, paying all expenses (including 3 holidays) and giving her money to spend on clothes, jewellery every month. It seemed the more I gave the more she wanted. We serarated because I was sick of her promising she would change and then asking for more. Recently she seems to have realised how much I was doing for our family and has turned up at my new home a few times in tears, saying how sorry she was. I have the kids 3 days a week and pay maintenace on time every week and just want to get on with my life and help my boys grow into strong men. I want more kids and want to find someone else that does too but am worried that someone will take advantage again. Is this natural and what do I do to make sure it does not happen again?
2007-05-07
23:35:14
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