My mother, who is very judgmental, says that my boyfriend, who could be my husband one day, is ugly and that I "could do so much better than him". He's the first and only guy I've ever dated. He comes from a totally different culture, we're vegetarian and his family is not. Basically, he's everything she didn't want and now she makes me feel like crap for liking him. The days after I tell her again and AGAIN that I want to be with him, she ignores me and makes me feel bad for liking him. He's the sweetest, most loving guy, he's a doctor, and he's ready to take me into his life forever. It's more than I could have asked for, but now, I'm beginning to think that I need to conform to popular culture and look for a good-looking guy. He's attractive to me and he thinks I'm beautiful. I dont know what to do. I dont think my family will value my love for him and will treat me like crap forever if I stay with him. Don't know what to do....
2007-05-03
05:11:17
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