And he wants to work it out, how do you KNOW its for real? How do you KNOW he's sincere? That he really wants YOU. I'm so confused cuz he said he had an affair cuz he wasnt happy, but he never treated me bad while it was happening. Like i have nothing to compare it too. Like behavior during the affair as opposed to now. I constantly find myself throwing phrases in his face like: thats what you said then, or thats what you promised then, or thats what you did then. He says that was then and I wasnt myself then, this is now and please accept me for who I am today. He has me so "jacked up in the head". I dont know what to believe. He is trying so hard, to make it right, that much I can tell, but theres always that lingering doubt when I compare the personalities he had then to now. Theres not much different. someone please help me, i dont know what to do or what to think.
2007-04-30
11:53:28
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