i've been going regularly to a night club alone, due to my husbands' encouragement, he's a lot older, works long hours, and wants me to have a life. there is this chap who's similar age, who works there, we became friends, he's a widower, he's fallen in love with me, gave me a red rose, written poetry. he knows i'm married, respects that, and is happy being friends, on his night off, which is once a month, i spent the evenings with him at the club, chatting, dancing and cuddling, he's tactile like me, whereas my husband isn't, i've tried talking to my husband that i need to feel more wanted. i know he loves me, as he shows it and tells me, but he's not a huggy type, and i've always been insecure and need more hugs, he's happy having little or none, i know it's a problem i have to deal with, as my husband says he is what he is, he's not the easiest person to discuss things with, and takes it as an attack on him, however nicely its said.
2007-04-29
21:15:48
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chakra girl
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Marriage & Divorce