I dated an Indian guy for almost 2 years. Before me, he was with an Indian girl who loved him like anything. He promised her and her family marriage, had sex with her, and then came to the U.S. and cheated on her a lot. She never knew the truth about what he did, and he made her think that everything was all her fault. The poor girl still cries for him years later.
After I had been with him for almost 2 years, I found out he was a cheater and how he would meet girls online, become friends with them and fly to see them for the weekend for sex. He's been doing this for years. I'm the only one who knows. His family has no idea. They arranged a marriage for him at the end of this year, and I don't want him to get married! He doesn't deserve it. He's already hurt enough women in his life.
What should I do? I could write a letter to his parents but I don't want to hurt them. They didn't do anything wrong. But I think they are the only people he might listen to. Please help.
2007-04-14
10:52:58
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