When our relationship turned serious and we were at the point of talking about marriage, my husband told me about his bad break up with his last serious girlfriend. He said they got in a fight and she had hit him, so he left her. Without any reason to doubt him, I said "OK" and haven't thought about it until recently. We've been married for six months now and his parents mentioned a battery ticket and him being arrested, none of which I knew about. It turns out that he was arrested for abusing her, not the other way around. I came from a very physically, and sexually, abusive childhood and this shocked and scared me. The fact is he lied to me about something I consider to be very important. Should I confront him? Do I have the right to be upset about something that happened in a past relationship? Why would he lie about something like that?
2007-04-12
20:09:59
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Marriage & Divorce