They are not speaking to eachother, and I am in the middle of it. She is 75 years old, and my mother just told her a week ago that she does not want to have any more contact with her. She lives in a nursing home, and does not have any contact with the oustide world besides her church. Her husband of fifty years died a couple years ago, and it's been really hard on her. My mother has decided to not talk to her anymore because of things that happened in her childhood. When my mother was 6 or 7, she was molested by her older adopted brother (My grandmother didn't know about this) My mother also said she was physically abused by my grandmother when she was younger. I believe that she should forgive my grandmother, because it is near the end of her life. No one should be left alone in their last years. When I say this to my mom, she gets really defensive. I am afraid she will regret this one day when my grandma is gone.
2007-03-17
16:06:43
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Sabrina H
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