We have been married 10 yrs. in TX. He has DWI's and domestic vilonce charge...He has since stopped drinking (sober 1 yr), I took him back 5 yrs ago afeter he left me one weekend and moved in w/ a married woman from work. I took my kids and myself, moved closer to his family, he came back 4 months later, treated me like crap, rubbed it in my face, I left again once for 9 mo. once for 3 mo. all separations were drug out by him. Now 1 yr & on the 5 yr. anniversary of his affair he is moving out. I am looking 4 work now & he says he's paying my bills. He did pay most of them, so far. He is staying here, but took his ring off 4 days ago & now tonight he is going out already. Our kids are 2, 6 and 10. He plays music and wants to be able to be free to play with friends w/out me. He has never included me in his circle. I sew, cook, clean, bake, take care of the kids, drug/drink free... But I am angry he has never faced up to the issues. he refuses counceling, says there is no hope?
2007-02-24
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30YrOldPTAMomof3
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