A friend of mine has let me down in an emergency and lied to me on at least once occasion. Both of these incidents can be traced back to her selfishness. She always puts herself before other people and I don't think that's what friendship is about.
I've thought about talking to her about it, but I know, based on her personality, that she will just get upset and I really don't think she will change her behavior. This selfishness is just part of who she is and she thinks it's logical to put herself before other people.
I've decided to distance myself from her and I just say I'm busy even if I'm not, etc. I feel bad, however, because this is just like lying. Should I sit her down and talk to her about it? I've been thinking that it would just make me feel better and not her. I think she's happy thinking that everything's okay...even though it's not.
2007-02-24
02:38:50
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fufubunnie
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