My bf and i lived together for almost 4yrs although we are now separated by oceans he's in the US I am in asia we still have a strong relationship and constant communication. He said he wants me to move there with him after the school year and settle down. Few months after I admitted to him honestly about the lies I've kept about my family. We got over with the problem and we're sweet again. He knows that I have to sort out my previous marriage in order to marry him. He also said i should seek for a lawyer, file for a divorce and he will help me.
Last week i went to a lawyer. I told my bf the result of my inquiry. I got an impression that he's not interested, he made a positive comment but was not as adamant as before. He's a very honest person I'm sure he'd tell me if he found someone new. Should I ask him? but I know men dont wanna be pressured? I really love him what should i do?
2007-02-24 02:38:42 · 3 answers · asked by Arianne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just want to know whether there's future in our realtionship because he's my true love.
2007-02-26 22:13:50 · update #1
baby girl, he's now have second thought about you. long distance relationship is an up hill battle for both of you to make it work. getting a divorce is the right thing to do. but don't just think that you're doing it for him. it's for you. once you're single there are many doors will open for you. put it this way, if it meant to be, then it meant to be.
2007-02-24 02:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a hard spot. It is difficult to feel how a man feel when he is not next to you. I do not think he found a new person, but a lot of people need constant touch to feel strong.
You must do whats best for you first, if getting a divorce is what you should do, then do it. IF things work out between you too, then great. You are right...do not ask him...he will tell you if that situation is actually whats going on....a lot of times we just get depressed and we don't sound cheery for no reason at all...
2007-03-04 08:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is far away and had time to reconsider the whole siyuation.. and has probably decided he dont want to continue.. sort out your troubles and move on with you life.. you have some serious troubles facing you..
2007-02-24 10:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋