We have been married for six years, three kids, one from my prev. marriage (9), one from his prev. marriage (8), and one together (5.) I am thin, fit, sexy, lost all the baby weight plus some more, worked in the fitness industry, got breast implants b/c I felt my breast looked icky after kids. I am cute and smart (grad degree) and funny. My husband never initiates sex, could go months without sex, and never gives me gifts (even on mjr holidays), never plans dates. I caught him looking at online porn about 1 yr ago and he is very smiley with hot women but no traces of phone calls/emails/etc. I am really smart and not easy to fool. What the ****? I am fed up with this guy. We used to have hot sex b4 marriage and in the 1st yr of marriage, we used to do all sorts of crazy dirtiness (w/toys, etc.), but now, he is like dead. I used to cry but now I'm just numb. Leaving him would be a struggle b/c I stopped working 1 yr ago b/c of so much going on w/the kids--at his request/demand.THOUGHTS?
2007-01-13
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