I am in the process of leaving my wife. She will keep the 3 kids with her in our house, and I do want them to be comfortable. My wife is irresponsible an immature with money, etc. and the only way to keep my children in a healthy household is for me to be nearby.
I converted my loft above the garage into an apartment and I pay for all the household expenses for her until she learns how to do it on her own....Her wages from her part-time job should be enough for her groceries, personal expenses, etc.
NOw, I think I am doing the right thing for my family and my ex, but I also fear that it would be wrong (or viewed as wrong) to start dating while we are still technically living under the same roof.
I am really torn.... I want my kids to be happy, I want my ex to learn to provide for them, but I aslo want to be happy and move on.
I even feel guilty hanging with female friends of mine (no sex involved)
I am wrong, or just overthinking everythjing?
2007-01-04
05:53:53
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