me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a month now, and he's a few years older than me. I didn't get as much out of the relationship as I expected to, and it turns out I get incredibly bored spending time with him!! He can't really hold a conversation well, and the "connection" isnt there. the problem is, Everyone says they've never seen him as thrilled in a relationship. He's already talking about years from now!! he says he loves me, but I don't want things to get that serious. I can't try and cool things off because he rings me about every five minutes to "talk" as in, yes, no and mmmm.... and then ask me whether i wana go out somewhere so we can do more of the same thing. sometimes i feel alright about being around him... but most of the time I feel i have to go as far as avoiding him. I really strongly don't want to hurt his feelings, so I really don't know what to do! A month isn't that long... should I keep things going for awhile, or dump him, and if so, how?
2006-12-30
23:14:03
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