I love my grilfriend, very deeply. But we have run into problems because she wanted us to live together, I agreed - then she changed her mind with a week to go. I am still doing up her new flat and staying there loads - just not living there. I hate this, I still want to live with her and the stress is driving a wedge into our relationship. We have split 5 times in 2 months. We are back together now. Problem is this happened to me before. An ex did the same thing and also started seeing someone else. To try to save my current relationship I contacted her to ask where we went wrong and she was good enough to help. Apparently I like to take over & control. (I see it as helping!) A get moody when my opinion is ignored (but I only give it when it is asked for!) I am trying to come to terms with this and learn from it - but any tips would be gratefully appreciated. I dont want to lose someone I truly love.
Have you been like this or been at the other end of it? Did you get over it?
2006-12-29
01:14:54
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Paul H
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