I'd been seeing for over a year and he had just moved back to his hometown in September for a job. He told me he wanted to keep in touch, but the last time I talked to him was in October. So...since November, about a month now, I hadn't contacted him at all...now he just called me, 2 months later....
Uh..I don't know whether to be sad or happy...He told me that he was driving home from a bar and put in a cd to that was one that we always listened to. He said it reminded him of me. So we got to talking, he wondered how I was doing and everything. Then he started telling me that he met a girl after he sold her a system (ADT) and they've been going together for a few months. HUH? Why would he say that to me? Was he expecting me to be happy about that? I didn't understand that, especially after I haven't heard from him in 2 months. Was he trying to rub it in my face or something? Why would he be calling me then? Just to keep me in the picture...just in case? I held back, and pretty much changed the subject. Then he asked if I had talked to my uncle about Colorado, and I told him I'd be seeing him for the holidays, and that we might go this April. He sounded excited, but asked about deer around his property. So I said, isn't there a season for that? And he said yah it's from August-November. And then I said they have good fishing out there. So he told me to keep him up to date with it. So..why would he want to go on vacation with me & my parents for that matter, if he thought he was going to still be with this girl? He said he hooked up, so I don't know if that means it's just for sexual purposes or what. I didn't want to ask though. Anyway, we were ending the conversation and he was telling me that he was thinking of me so he decided to give me a call, and I told him thanks for calling and it was nice to hear from him, and he said the same. Then I said, well I wish we could talk more because I miss ya, and he said yah, but it is what it is. UHHHH why, why does he say that? Then he said, keep your chin up, good luck with your job, and call me if you need something. So what's up with that? I don't understand, I just don't. And it breaks my heart at the same time. What does he honestly want from me? Like I said, after I don't contact him for awhile, he always comes back. And it happened again, this time. I'm glad that I told him that I missed talking to him, but I wasn't really expecting that response. He also said, after he said it is what it is, that we live apart now. Well no kidding, but that shouldn't stop you from keeping in contact. Is he pretty much telling me that there is no chance because we live apart now? I hope after he talked to me, he thinks long and hard about me. It's actually just bringing more memories of me by calling me tonight. Well at least I know that email about my pill addiction didn't seem to phase him. But I'm not going to email him that letter now, because I just talked to him. And again, I'll leave it be for awhile. I don't know how I should approach things now...=( Does he still have feelings for me? What is going on?
2006-12-21
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