I love her and she is about 70 lbs overweight. She has been overweight always since I met her, although she was about 40 lbs overweight then (11 years ago). She really has been about the same for about 8 years.
If she stays this way forever, I am OK with it. However, I would be lying if I said I wouldn't like her to lose it. I would like it and I know she would too. She says she wants to but does not follow through with any real changes in her life. I exercise and all that and I am in pretty good shape, and she doesn't.
I have done everything imaginable to help her - encourage her to work out with me, praise her when she loses a few pounds, and *never* complain about her putting it back on. I'll cook her anything she wants to eat however healthy but it just never works, because she wants me to eat much less too (yet I am not overweight).
I love her to death but I think we would be better off if she lost the weight. What can we do here? Gastric band is a last resort....
2006-12-18
05:58:47
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Marriage & Divorce