We have been married for almost twenty years and have three wonderful children. We are both in our early forties and have a stable relationship. The other night she suddenly brings this up out of the blue saying that it is just something that she has to get off her chest. We weren't married at the time this happened, although we were dating but at different schools. She said she wasn't apologizing but felt that it was something that she neded to tell me.
I REALIZE that I am the one with the issue here and that was something that happened long ago. Neither one of us has ever been unfaithful and I freely admit that I love her now, then and always will. Ancient history that shouldn't matter but all the same I can't get the image of her and two guys, it was two guys, out of my head and it is driving me off my nut. Petty, small minded, childish on my part, ect, and I hate to admit to this, more than a little bit of envy.
Anyone else ever dealt with this and how did you do it?
2006-12-11
12:02:28
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Paul S
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Marriage & Divorce